Hi there ! I'm new. I've been following silently the pages of this forum for a while now, and I get that I might be as welcome as a thunderstorm.
So, to be clear, I played OG, Crisis Core, watched Advent Children, read Traces of Two Past, and I pretty much understand that Tifa and Cloud is the endgame. But I also think that it would not be without Aerith.
Aerith is the one who gets Cloud to admit his love for TIfa is what I mean. I also think that Aerith, despite her love for Cloud, is pushing him towards her.
I get that she loves him. This, for me, is not questionable. But Aerith seems selfless, and on some level, knows, that she cannot get between Cloud and TIfa, and want the best for her friends.
I also get that Aerith's mind is still on Zack (hence the Dream Date).
The way I see it, the devs have made a wonderful, complicated, very human story, where every interaction matters, where every character allows Cloud and Tifa to happen. As for the Dream Date, what I understand from it is it's not somewhat fuel for the LTD, but a huge reminder of Zack, which is why he's constantly there, even in another "world", it's almost a carbon copy of the Crisis Core date.
As for ACC and Cloud and Tifa's relationship treatment... I find there is a lot of dishonesty among fans. One of you wrote an amazing article on that note, and it's worth reading and re reading (and still available on this website). Everything becomes up for debate because it's seen in a shipping point of view instead of an evolutive one. The way I see it, Cloud feels guilt, on a tremendous amount, and it has nothing to do with being in love, but a lot to do about love, which is more nuanced. Whether it's Aerith, Zack, his mother or the three of them, doesn't change the fact that I don't see it as romantic.
On the Remake/ Rebirth note, I'm not so sure about Aerith trying to "protect" Cloud as much as her talking to herself, warning herself that some things aren't meant to be. I don't deny the trope but... For me that's not an example of it. More like Remake Aerith is breaking the fourth wall, talking to the player and talking to herself. Plus, in Rebirth, she's not the one pushing Cloud away, on the contrary. I might argue that Cloud is pushing her away on an unconscious level, by refusing to sit next to her every time she asks. Maybe on some level he knows that she's not meant to last, I don't know. For me, it kind of kills the "I'm pushing you away to protect you" trope. Rebirth Aerith doesn't know she's going to die and Cloud has absolutely no way to know.
So sorry about my phrasing, I'm not an english native, but these are my two cents !
Welcome GodofWars

. You're welcome to all your opinions and thoughts as this is a forum. One good thing about this place is that at least nowadays, for the most part, most people will be civil even if they don't agree.
Don't worry about the phrasing, I'm also not English native. As are others here.
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However I also think you misunderstood my points. I brought up the trope of protecting someone and pushing them away in the context of Advent Children. Meaning Cloud is the one that is pushing his loved ones away because he doesn't want them to see him suffer. Not Aerith. And how many people took that as a negative but it's actually a big trope. Especially in romance.
As for Cloud pushing her away? Absolutely agree. I have always said Cloud Strife took Aerith Gainsborough for granted while she was still alive. And I do believe that is something he also needs to come to terms with along with the crushing guilt of watching her die.
But my point was about people using Cloud, especially in Advent Children pushing people away as some gotcha to show he doesn't care about them. When he obviously does.
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Second. I will say I disagree with your description of the dream date. Or at least most of it. I think there's way more happening than her feelings for Zack there. That's your opinion and I understand it but there's also really a lot more to these characters than the romance in their lives.
Aerith's story is about being the last Cetra and choosing freedom and being a normal person with everything that comes with that such as falling in love, making friends. Versus her responsibility to the planet. And Rebirth is her finally having that freedom, finally having those friends, finally finding that normal life. However of course we know she can't escape her responsibility to the planet.
Zack is featured as an influence in the dream date, yes.
But Aerith's goal there is to say goodbye to Cloud something she never got to do in OG and give him the white materia to help stop Sephiroth's plan. This is something she wanted but couldn't do in Lifestream White. Zack is in the background not the forefront because she still loves him but also just as importantly, she's not sure what happened or what she feels about everything and she's trying to figure it out in Rebirth. He represents another question she never got an answer to in OG as she died never knowing what exactly happened to him. She never got any closure.
But as someone who liked CC enough to almost %100 it, sorry I don't see the date as a carbon copy of the Crisis Core date. I see why people see it that way because it's the same place as the date. She loves the slums and church and cherishes the memories she made there. This includes time with Zack and Cloud.
My view on the dream date is the items and NPCs' words represents that even if Aerith wants to she can't escape her fate. This includes in every category. Even in a dream Aerith can't be with Cloud, even in a dream, the end of the souls Sephiroth is trapping will lead to Geostigma and if they don't stop Sephiroth end of days. This world is fading away as are the souls stuck in the stream. Even in a dream, she can't escape she's going to die. This I think is clearer in Japanese where the photographer NPC says Aerith looks like she's about to cry.
This is also why the candy tastes bitter. And also why the only item you can buy is a reunion flower. She would love to spend more time with Cloud but she can't. She obviously has feelings for Cloud but she can't be with him. And she knows that. And she can only say goodbye and give him the White Materia.
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Because Aerith's also got more important stuff to do now like trying to help those who are still alive fight a world ending threat and that's why she's using the dream in the first place to give Cloud the White Materia. Specifically Lifestream White Aerith finally found a way to reach out to Cloud to help fight Sephiroth.
That's why I argue Aerith's dream date is not solely about her feelings for Zack nor is even it solely about her feelings for Cloud.
However, she's also human so she also uses that as an opportunity to say goodbye and sort out the regrets and muddled feelings she had while she was alive.
So yes this includes, but doesn't revolve around, her piecing her feelings for Cloud and Zack. And finding out how Cloud feels about her. She never got told by OG Cloud that he wanted to spend more time together or that he considered her a friend.
So this is her getting closure. But that's not all.
And dream date Aerith is Lifestream White Aerith. So she knows she's going to die. She's acting the way she is because she knows time is short. (And Cloud picks up on it that she's acting weird and unlike her usual self.)
So yes I agree the dream date isn't supposed to be LTD fuel. But I also think it often gets simplified to just one aspect when there's actually a lot going on.
And Zack is basically searching for her at the same time and we know from Advent Children they're going to meet again. Everything now is set up for that.
Welcome again.
Edit: Moved a sentence. Clarified.